What is a Humanist Wedding?
What is a Humanist Wedding in Scotland?
Planning your wedding is such an exciting time, and choosing the right ceremony to reflect your values is a big part of that! You might be wondering about a humanist wedding in Scotland, so let me explain what they’re all about.
In essence, a humanist wedding is a deeply personal ceremony that focuses entirely on the couple, their unique love story, and their shared values.
It celebrates the profound bond between two people, their journey together, and their hopes for the future. It’s all about you!
Can we have a Symbolic Gesture?
Can we have a Symbolic Gesture at our Wedding Ceremony?
The most wonderful thing about a humanist wedding in Scotland is the freedom to make it truly yours, and a great way to do this is by including symbolic gestures.
These add an extra layer of meaning and visual representation to your commitment, making your ceremony even more personal and memorable for you and your guests. They’re a fantastic opportunity to express your unique bond in a tangible way.
The familiar exchange of rings is a wonderful symbolic gesture, representing your unending love and commitment.
Many couples choose to also weave in other gestures, and there are lots of great options to consider.
For example, handfasting is a timeless ritual where ribbons or cords are symbolically tied around your hands, beautifully representing your lives becoming intertwined.
Another lovely choice, especially here in Scotland, is drinking from a quaich, a traditional two-handled Scottish loving cup. This symbolises trust and shared experience.
A sand ceremony involves each of you pouring sand into a single vessel, symbolising the blending of your individual paths into one new, combined journey. This is a favourite when the couple include children in the ceremony.
Or, you might light a unity candle together, where one large candle is lit from two smaller, candles, signifying two lives becoming one.
These gestures are entirely optional, of course, and can be perfectly tailored or even created from scratch to fit your story and personal style. Whether you choose something traditional or invent something completely new, incorporating a symbolic gesture can add a deeply touching and visually stunning moment to your wedding, celebrating your union in a truly unique way.
Are Humanist Weddings Legal?
Are Humanist Weddings Legal in Scotland?
Here in Scotland, humanist weddings are absolutely legal and fully recognised in law.
This means that a humanist celebrant can conduct your entire wedding ceremony, making your marriage official right there and then. This has been the case since 2005, and it’s something we’re very proud of in Scotland!
And if you don’t live in Scotland?
You’ll find a warm welcome here!
Many couples from across the UK and abroad choose Scotland specifically for their legal humanist wedding.
It’s a fantastic option if this type of ceremony isn’t yet legally recognised where you live, or if you dream of celebrating your commitment amidst Scotland’s stunning landscapes or unique venues.
Who is the Celebrant?
Who is the Celebrant?
My name is Alison Barr. You might notice from the rest of this website that, as well as being a Wedding Celebrant in Scotland, I have also been a Couples Counsellor for many years.
My therapeutic background deeply informs my work as a celebrant. I truly understand the dynamics of relationships, the importance of communication, and the incredible strength found in partnership.
I believe this insight allows me to connect with couples on a deeper level, helping to draw out the essence of your story and present it in a way that truly resonates.
So, why do I want to marry people?
For me, being a Humanist Wedding Celebrant is about celebrating love in its purest, most personal form. Witnessing two people commit to each other in a way that is entirely their own, sharing their vulnerabilities and strengths, is incredibly moving.
I genuinely believe in the power of shared human values and the joy of creating a ceremony that is inclusive, heartfelt, and perfectly reflective of who you are.
It’s a privilege for me to play a part in such a significant moment in your lives.
What are the next Steps?
What are the next Steps in Planning a Scottish Humanist Wedding?
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Get in Touch: Simply email weddings@thegreenrooms.net. Please share your date and location (if you know them), and any questions you have. I’ll let you know if I’m available on your date.
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Arrange a Chat: Next, we’ll arrange a relaxed, no-obligation chat. This is your chance to get to know me and for me to understand your vision.
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Confirm the Details: If you feel I’m the right celebrant for you, I’ll book you in, and we can get started!
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The Ceremony Journey Begins!: Now, the exciting part starts! I’ll work closely with you to craft every detail of your personalised ceremony, from your love story to vows and symbolic gestures, making it perfect.
